Day 10 – A Thanksgiving Story

Thank You, photo by Mary GowHappy Thanksgiving!

Did you grow up liking Thanksgiving more than Christmas?

I did and still do.

I remember one of my most memorable Thanksgivings was after I returned from traveling for eight months around the world. My views were rather idealistic and I was inspired to live on purpose. I was in “total Trust” mode.

At that time Joseph Campbell’s “Power of Myth” was really popular and following my bliss was the theme.

I did some unusual things that year, like I lived for a month at the Ojai Foundation in Ojai, Calif., in a work/study where the purpose was to learn the American Indian Way of Counsel.

Our meetings were in a circle and an object was placed in the center. Whoever wanted to speak would take the “talking piece” and have the attention of the circle.

Before I left I also went on a vision quest. My first 24 hours in the wilderness alone with just water. I learned something about my own resilience.

I also learned to walk in low light, moonlight, or no light by trusting my instincts.

While at Ojai, I visualized where I was going from there. My plan was to intern at a PBS-TV station and live on the biggest hill in Seattle.

Looking back I can’t believe I actually took all my stuff to Ojai and stored it and then loaded it up when it was time to leave Ojai. I drove my stuff in a U-Haul truck and 1300 miles later I was Seattle. Three hours prior to arriving in Seattle (in Portland) I made a phone call about a place I found in a newspaper ad (this is pre-craigslist). I drove directly there!

A few days later I celebrated my stream of miracles as I served Thanksgiving meals as a volunteer in Seattle.

That’s my “total Trust” Thanksgiving story.

Happy Thanksgiving and as cheesy as it may sound – for this day, and every day, I am grateful!

Day 9 – The Water’s Edge

Water's Edge
“Water’s Edge,” watercolor and pencil on paper, by Mary Gow
I went to a talk given by Jessica Murray last week about the unique times we are currently experiencing.

I’m still thinking about it.

I hadn’t heard the term “ecocide” before and it caught my attention as she said it’s a possibility that we are committing it.

Is resorting to physical battles a sign of “spiritual immaturity”?

These were a two of the points Jessica Murray touched on. She is an astrologer, cultural commentator, and author of Soul Sick Nation: An Astrologer’s View of America, and her new book, At the Crossroads: An Astrologer Looks at These Turbulent Times.

It wasn’t doomsday predictions but encouragement to remember our power is in our participation as a collective.

Her talk reminded me of the Pachamama Alliance. Their “Four Years Go” video created in 2010 shows in three minutes the underlying message of this post.

Day 8 – 17 Qualities of a ‘Pro’

The Yes Tree, by Mary Gow
The Yes Tree, watercolor and pencil on paper, by Mary Gow
As promised from an earlier post, I’m revisiting Steven Pressfield’s The War of Art and what distinguishes a “Professional” from an “Amateur.”

According to Pressfield a professional:

1. Is Patient.
2. Seeks Order.
3. Demystifies.
4. Acts in the Face of Fear.
5. Accepts No Excuses.
6. Plays It as It Lays.
7. Is Prepared.
8. Does Not Show Off.
9. Dedicates Herself to Mastering Technique.
10. Does Not Hesitate to Ask for Help.
11. Distances Herself from Her Instrument.
12. Does Not Take Failure (or Success) Personally.
13. Endures Adversity.
14. Self-Validates.
15. Recognizes Her Limitations.
16. Reinvents Herself.
17. Is Recognized by Other Professionals.

(from pgs. 75 to 96, The War of Art)

Watch a video here and see Marie Forleo’s most recent interview with Pressfield about his latest book, Turning Pro.

My painting today is titled “The Yes Tree.” It’s about following the ‘yes’ that feels right in your gut.

Day 7 – Dreaming Big and Inspiring Kids

Rose, by Mary Gow
“Rose,” watercolor and pencil on paper by Mary Gow
I found Dallas Clayton‘s work while researching artists achieving success following their passion.

Watch him in the minute-and-a-half video below as he tells his story.

If you have any interest in creating books for kids or want to see art that appeals to the kid in you, check out his website.

My painting today is the gesture of a rose blooming.

It’s time to bloom!